Đây là một ý niệm quá hiển nhiên, đến nỗi tôi thấy gần như lúng túng khi viết về nó. Vâng, tôi đã nhận thấy là có rất ít các quan hệ hôn nhân biết tận dụng những hệ quả thật sự rất đáng kể của ý tưởng này.

Ý tưởng này nói lên rằng, khi vợ (hoặc chồng) bạn đang vui vẻ và được tôn trọng, cô ấy (hay anh ấy) sẽ rất sẵn lòng giúp đỡ bạn. Ngược lại, khi cô ấy (hay anh ấy) cảm thấy không được vui hoặc là bị coi thường, thì có lẽ điều cuối cùng trong cuộc sống, chỉ khi không còn gì để làm, mới là làm cho cuộc sống của bạn được dễ dàng hơn đôi chút.

Ở đây tôi phải nói thật rõ vấn đề: tôi không muốn nói trách nhiệm của bạn là phải làm cho cô ấy (hoặc anh ấy) vui. Điều đó hoàn toàn tùy thuộc vào tự thân mỗi người. Tuy nhiên, chúng ta thật sự có thể giữ một vai trò đáng kể trong việc bày tỏ cho vợ (hoặc chồng) mình biết rằng cô ấy (hay anh ấy) đang được tôn trọng. Hãy thử suy nghĩ về trường hợp của chính mình. Có bao lần bạn chân thành cảm ơn vợ (hoặc chồng) mình vì tất cả những công việc nhọc nhằn mà cô ấy (hay anh ấy) đã làm vì bạn? Tôi đã gặp có đến hàng trăm người thú nhận là mình chẳng bao giờ làm điều đó. Và hầu như không có ai làm điều này như một thông lệ đều đặn.

Vợ chồng với nhau là những người cùng chia sẻ. Một cách lý tưởng, bạn nên xem người vợ (hoặc chồng) của mình như người bạn thân nhất. Chẳng hạn, nếu một người bạn thân nhất nói với bạn rằng: «Tôi muốn được một mình đi chơi xa trong vài hôm.» Bạn sẽ nói gì với người ấy? Trong hầu hết các trường hợp, bạn rất có thể sẽ đáp

lại với những câu đại loại thế này: «Điều đó tuyệt lắm! Bạn rất xứng đáng được hưởng điều đó. Bạn nên làm điều đó... » Thế nhưng, nếu vợ (hoặc chồng) bạn nói ra những điều y hệt như trên, liệu bạn có đáp lại cũng giống như trên không? Hay là bạn sẽ nghĩ ngay đến những gì mà yêu cầu này có thể ảnh hưởng đến bạn? Liệu bạn có thấy phiền lòng, thấy bị tổn thương, hay thấy bực dọc? Hãy nghĩ xem, liệu một người bạn tốt sẽ quan tâm nhiều hơn đến niềm vui của chính bản thân, hay đến niềm vui của bạn mình? Bạn có nghĩ rằng, chỉ là ngẫu nhiên mà một người bạn thân bao giờ cũng sẵn lòng giúp bạn bất cứ khi nào cần đến?

Điều hiển nhiên là, bạn không thể luôn luôn đối xử với vợ (hoặc chồng) mình hệt như với những người bạn thân khác. Nói cho cùng, một quan hệ hôn nhân với cuộc sống gia đình cũng như một ngân sách chung, luôn đi kèm theo với rất nhiều trách nhiệm. Tuy nhiên, cách ứng xử có thể tương tự như nhau. Lấy ví dụ, nếu một người bạn tốt đến chơi và lau dọn nhà cửa, rồi bỏ thời gian làm giúp bạn bữa tối... Liệu bạn sẽ nói gì? Bạn sẽ ứng xử như thế nào? Nếu vợ (hoặc chồng) bạn cũng làm những công việc y hệt như thế, liệu cô ấy (hay anh ấy) có xứng đáng nhận được cùng một sự đánh giá, sự biết ơn giống như vậy không? Hẳn nhiên là có. Cho dù những công việc đã làm là công việc gì, thì mọi người đều mong muốn – và xứng đáng – nhận được một thái độ biết ơn. Và khi chúng ta không cảm thấy việc làm của mình bị coi thường, thì bản tính tự nhiên của chúng ta vẫn là sẵn lòng giúp đỡ.

Gần như không có gì dễ dự đoán

hơn là cách ứng xử của mọi người mỗi khi cảm thấy được người khác cảm thông và tôn trọng. Cả tôi và vợ tôi đều chân thành biết ơn nhau và luôn ghi nhớ là chẳng bao giờ coi thường việc làm của nhau. Tôi rất thích những khi Kris nói với tôi rằng cô ấy cảm kích những công việc nhọc nhằn của tôi như thế nào, và cô ấy vẫn tiếp tục làm thế ngay cả sau hơn mười lăm năm chung sống. Tôi cũng tự hứa là phải biết ơn, và bày tỏ lòng biết ơn đó mỗi ngày đối với những công việc cực nhọc và đóng góp to lớn của cô ấy cho gia đình. Kết quả là, cả hai chúng tôi đều mong muốn được làm điều gì đó cho nhau – không phải chỉ là vấn đề trách nhiệm, mà là vì chúng tôi biết việc làm của mình luôn luôn được ghi nhận.

Có thể là bạn đã làm như thế từ lâu nay. Nếu được vậy, hãy tiếp tục. Nhưng nếu không, hãy bắt đầu vẫn không bao giờ là quá muộn. Hãy tự hỏi mình: «Liệu tôi có thể làm gì để bày tỏ lòng biết ơn đối với vợ (hoặc chồng) tôi nhiều hơn nữa?» Thông thường thì câu trả lời sẽ rất đơn giản. Hãy cố gắng thường xuyên để nói thật nhiều hai tiếng cám ơn một cách thật chân thành. Luôn nghĩ nhiều đến trong tâm trí của mình, không phải là những gì bạn đang làm cho gia đình, mà là những gì mà vợ (hoặc chồng) mình đang làm. Bày tỏ thái độ biết ơn và sự đánh giá cao của bạn. Tôi dám cuộc là rồi bạn sẽ nhận ra một điều mà tất cả những cặp vợ chồng hạnh phúc đều nhận ra: khi vợ (hoặc chồng) bạn ở trong tâm trạng càng vui vẻ, càng được tôn trọng, thì cô ấy (hoặc anh ấy) càng sẵn lòng làm

mọi việc giúp bạn.


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